We had Stand By Me and The Breakfast Club in the ’80s and Dazed and Confused in the ’90s, and yes they are great coming-of-age films, but is there really any need to keep reminding you of that in every film list over and over again?
So, I’ve decided to select some alternate choices. I have always strongly connected with coming-of-age stories, and these five picks are some of the best I’ve seen within the genre. If you haven’t seen these films, then you need to get them on your watch-list ASAP!
The Basketball Diaries (1995)
The Basketball Diaries tells the story of Jim Carroll’s teenage years where he developed an addiction to heroin. It’s the best all-round film on this list and not your typical coming-of-age film, because it’s extremely dark and depressing in places. But the film’s grittiness and its convincing depiction of youth, makes it a must-watch. I was also blown away by DiCaprio’s performance and his sheer commitment to the role.
Mean Creek (2004)
Mean Creak is one those films that I stumbled upon randomly and decided to watch. This indie film as far as I’m aware had virtually no marketing, because I don’t remember anyone ever talking about it… Though I am making an educated guess on that, because I would have been about ten when the film came out, so naturally I can’t recall distinct memories that far back. But my point is that this film never got the attention it deserves, because it’s devastatingly brilliant. It involves bullying and peer pressure, and a group of kids who are forced to grow up real fast when they come across a dire situation.
The Spectacular Now (2010)
I initially thought The Spectacular Now looked quite generic, but I was willing to give it a chance, and I’m glad I did because it’s a really good film. It’s not just another ‘teen romance’ film, as it’s very thoughtful and effecting, with characters you deeply care for, and who speak and act like actual teenagers. And the main character Sutter (Miles Teller), isn’t a shy outsider like a lot of teens are in coming-of-age films. Instead, he’s a confident and outgoing guy, so it’s a refreshing change.
The Perks of Being a Wallflower (2012)
It’s a rare thing but The Perks of Being of Wallflower is on par with the original book. The differences between the two are minor, and the little changes that were made in the film are successful. It’s a funny, poignant and uplifting film, bursting with vibrant characters and a great soundtrack.
The Way, Way Back (2013)
If anything, you should see The Way, Way Back just because Steve Carell plays a bad guy. But more importantly, this is a film for any age, whether you’re an adult or a young kid. It follows fourteen-year-old Duncan (Liam James), who goes on a summer vacation with his mother and her new boyfriend, and he endures a spirited journey of self-discovery. The Way, Way Back is a hugely enjoyable film that rings home on so many levels.
So, what do you think of the list? Are there any other coming-of-age films that you think should be on here? Let me know your thoughts in the comment section.